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From: SifGreyWillow (Original Message) Sent: 8/5/2008 1:07 AM
To Make Someone Dream of You

The workings of a strong and flawless dream "meditation" will allow you to live a dream through with a person just as you wish it to happen. Done correctly, they will have the same dream as you did- and get the message you are trying to give them. But you must know exactly what you are doing. I will take you through this, step by step.
Decide who your goal is, and be able to visualize them very well:
What phrases do they use often?
What color are their eyes? Skin?
What style clothes do they where?
What gestures do they use?
What is their personality like?
What habits do they have?
How do they sit, speak, walk, eat?
What does their voice sound like?
What is their smile like, their frown?
What is their attitude towards you? Others?
These will be important later on.
Decide what you need to express, and how you will do it:
How do you want the dream to go?
What do you want to use to tell the person your message/feelings?
Think of the scenery, the actions; where will you go and how will you get there?
What will you say? How do you expect them to respond?
Will there be any other people in the dream; or will there be objects and places that are symbolic?
At any point, will there be music or sounds?
What emotions do you wish to convey and how should the person respond to them?
Now it's time to put these together and begin the meditation.
Find a time when you are sure the person is asleep. Generally, for most people with somewhat normal sleep scheduls, you can count on 3 am as being a good time. You can do it closer to the time they wake up. They will remember it better, but you will be taking a risk. They might wake up before you finish, or they might even awaken before you begin. This is not a good thing- when you are trying to send a dream to someone, and they are awake, it will often make them feel negative towards you. Subconsciously, it gets them in "you are invading my mind!" mode. They won't know why, but they might feel odd around you.
That aside, you are probably eager to know where to begin!
It's a good idea to sleep before the hour when you will perform the meditation. Sleep for 4 or 5 hours and set an alarm to awaken you at whatever time you chose as ideally being when the target is asleep. When you are aroused by the alarm at that time, get up and stretch, walk around your room a bit and get a drink if you need to. You shouldn't be unable to get back to sleep, but you should be aware enough that your mind is working.
Get comfortable again in bed and lay in your normal sleeping position. From the dream meditation, you should fall asleep. In fact, you should fall asleep during it, believe it or not!
Now you must get a perfect, clear visualization of the person. Use all those characteristics mentioned before to create the person in your mind- posture, looks, clothes, etc. Now focus on contacting the person. Think of their name over and over, keeping their image in your mind. Be "looking" into the eyes of the person in your mind. You will feel it when the "contact" is picked up- if they are asleep. You will feel a slight surge of energy and a strange sensation, at this point, your minds are hooked up. It's easier to make this connection than it is to maintain it!
Here is where you should begin controlling the dream. Focus on creating the scene and begin "playing it out" as you had imagined. Make sure you are clear about your message. Listen to what the other person says. Don't let your mind wander away! You will fall alseep quite naturally from this point onward. Surprisingly- the dream will not end here. Chances are, however, you will both "go your seperate ways" as your psyches drop connections. Once you are in the REM (rapid eye movement) state of sleep, you will be so out of it that unless you dream lucidly, you will not have control over anything following that point. The same will be happening on the other person's side.
Afterward: Did it work?
How do you know the dream magick worked? Well, most people won't come up to you and say "Hey, I dreamt about you last night, you didn't happen to send that dream to me psychically, did you?". You probably know as well as anyone that you forget most of your dreams anyways. This does not matter, though!
The message is within their subconscious. You'll notice immediately that the next time you see this person or are in contact with them, they will indeed act different towards you. Depending on what you made them dream about you, their attitude will definitely take on a different light based on their reaction to the dream. And the more of it they consciously recall, the stronger their reaction to seeing you will be. Make eye contact and this will help it to surface.
If you need to clarify the message or strengthen it, I encourage you to perform a new meditation or ritual regularly on the person. You can change the way you present the message (scenery, objects, emotions, colors...). The more you perform it, the more likely it is that you will get through to them. They'll begin to remember more and more of the dream.
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